Not about men only, but people in general. Maybe all this you feel you have to be nice and friendly to everyone you meet. Okay, Cosmo believe. But, did you make the charm at each meeting last? Well, that's what you need to be careful again. Here are the basic things you should look, learn, and mastered, so that anyone can once again captivated by the personal charm YOU!
1. Score the first impression
Remember honey, in 90% cases, the first impression has an important role to 'open up' the continuation of your relationship with someone new you know. Well, although there are several possibilities that could eventually fix the first impression that was not too good, but it's always better to play the save. So, try to always perform excellent at all times yes! Not that you are required to look up from morning till night every day. But at least, you can always look fresh. A little tip for you, lipstick plus favorite perfume can be a weapon to refresh your appearance at all times.......
2. Feel free to start
When hanging out in a club, all of a sudden you see a man who had a great chance to become more than just eye candy. Or, while waiting for treatment at the spa subscription, suddenly seized the attention of a passing and because it looks very 'exciting', and it's enough to make you mutter to myself, "Wow, it looks like fun to be her friend!"
If this is your story, do not let those people go away. Because maybe the Strangers could become new friends that will enliven your life. As a woman who Fearless, do not hesitate to take the initiative and take the first move first. Start it with a smile or nod of the head. When he responded with a friendly, do not be afraid to approach and initiate conversation. See, not sesusah you can imagine really. Believe Cosmo, you Will be Amazed how a simple "Hi" Actually can work your way! Not to mention, it makes you look confident at the same time humble. Smooth!
3. Let your body do the talking
In some studies, body language have touted the magical power to show your closeness with someone. Well, to get the maximum effect, remember well SOFTEN following principles:
Smile: There is a guy on the other end, and you do not smile at him. What happened after that? Talk facts: exactly, you just lost a chance to meet Mr.. Right. Will smile a lot more doors open, darling.
Open Body: Move your body to a position facing the other person serelaks possible.
Forward Lean: Every now and then lean your body toward him, or at least take a position that sits adjacent to it.
Touch: A pat gently on his shoulder, or the embrace of light in between the conversation, powerful way to create intimacy.
Eye contact: Look sharp eyes, whether you talk or listen to the story. Eye view of the focus will show you are interested in the conversation.
Nod: As a final touch but not least, remember to occasionally nodding his head as he was trying to explain something to you.
Those are all you need to SOFTEN anyone's heart!
4. Maximize the words: 'WE'
Believe me, 'we' is the word effectual to make other people quickly feel familiar with you. When talking about jobs for example, end the story with a sentence like, "We definitely get more out of work in accordance with our passion, right?" May sound trivial, but it will make the other person better understand the feelings you want to convey. Plus, it makes him feel old enough to know you!
5. Reveal a little secret
When the conversation starts to warm, try to lay out your little secret to him, 'Information' it could be anything, ranging from guilty pleasure, until the small dramas with the boss in the office. This will create an instant intimacy, as she slowly felt that there was no 'wall' between you and him.
But Cosmo messages, secrets that you said is a minor MUST be yes. After all, you just know. So, do not reveal any details about the things of your life.
6. Do not play hard to get
Honey, it's not his time anymore to play tug. Especially if you've been single and is now being chased some men. Rather than continue to maintain the prestige and think twice when confirmed his invitation to meet, better take it with enthusiasm. Make sure he knows that you are interested in him. Well, a more appropriate way to make him feel that you are 'hard' which is obtained by making him aware that many other men who preyed on you - are not as fortunate as him to be able to get your enthusiasm. But be careful give him clue about 'popularity' You are so subtle ways. Do not let him back just because you seem like bragging.
7. Establish similarity
Find the equation of what you have with the other person, from the hobbyist to the nature of such similarity. Afterwards, stay focused talks to it. Voila, you'll be instantly connected!
8. Sweet compliments
Want to make more and enjoy time with you? Every now and then try to catapult her sweet compliment. Can be about appearance, or about his attitude that implied from the chat you both. This 'ego massage' Will always work for anyone, darling. Well, who does not like to be praised? Especially by someone as attractive, pleasant, and well as you. Hmmm, anyone would fall in love!